Sexuality

[Bridge]

You don't pick an choose who you get turned on to. If you find the opposite sex attractive, then you are heterosexual, if you find your own sex attractive then you are homosexual, and if you like both then you are bisexual (and the same applies to whatever sexuality there is). I think you have a very different conceptualization on sexuality than the rest of us, because your sexuality is who you tun on to and not who you love, I love my best friend and I would friggin' die for him, but that doesn't make me homosexual.

I did say getting turned on by certain sexes was not in your control. Sexuality to me is involvement in sexual activity. Maybe I'm the only one who thinks this way: if you have sex with the same gender, you're homosexual, etc. If that is the case, then I am therefore led to believe to become a certain sexuality is a choice. This is what I think.

Interesting opinion (no, really), but it is not entirely logical. I don't want to twist your words, but by your definition of sexuality, homosexual virgins that get raped by the opposite sex are heterosexual. If you are turned on by a certain gender, then it is not unrealistic to pursue sex with that gender. So it really is a nonsequitur that sexuality=choice because celibacy!=confirmation. If you think about a word during conversation, then it is what you want to say. Just because you didn't actually say it doesn't mean the word changed. Y'know?