Sexuality

[eliasfrost]

Ok I'm gonna try and slip my little opinions in here, right in the middle of all the flame wars and b1tch fights on this discussion, and here they are:

Heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality and asexuality are NOT choices. They're like talents or birth marks or your eye colour: you're born with them, you can't pray them away, you can't force yourself to be something you're clearly not. That's the way we are.

I'm bisexual. I was born bisexual. I will always be bisexual, whether I'm ok with it or not, whether my parents are ok with it or not, whether the church is ok with it or not. Not out of choice, but out of design. It's how I am. It will not change.

Also the issue of gay marriage shouldn't exist at all. It's not about gay rights or straight rights, it's about HUMAN RIGHTS. Every human, male or female, straight or gay, should have the HUMAN RIGHT to be attracted to any human, male or female, straight or gay, they want. If two humans, male or female, straight or gay, want to love each other, get married, have a family, whatever, there should be nothing stopping them. Not law. Not religion. Not oppression. Not hatred. Nothing.

So there.

Thank you so much for writing this, a lot of people miss out on the actual important bits, like human rights and that your sexuality isn't a choice. I approve this message.