Gender

[Paddy™]

The average heterosexual male is not likely to be a victim of domestic violence.

Not true. The instances of violence, murder, control, sexual aggression/coercion and other forms of relationship-centred abuse are roughly equal between genders, as is shown through the studies and meta-studies done on the issue. Search the web for some examples:

https://duckduckgo.com/?q=gender+symmetr...c+violence

This is the same kind of research which led to feminists harassing Erin Pizzey, and even killing her dog, until she had to leave the country. It doesn't fit with the feminist world view, the dogma, the party line, so it's ignored or distorted and its proponents are labelled rape apologists, misogynists or something similar.

The average heterosexual male is far more concerned about being 'friend zoned', while the average heterosexual female is fearing being raped and killed by that guy who won't leave her alone at the bar.

Really? Women in bars are, on average, in constant fear for their lives and their safety? That doesn't sound normal, and it's not something I've ever heard from women personally. If anything, men have more to fear in a bar; men are far more often the victims of random violence, especially where alcohol is being consumed in high quantities.

I'd like you to post the survey of "average heterosexual males" upon which you've based your argument that their main concern is with being "friend zoned". I'm interested to see if this phenomenon is also found amongst lesbians and homosexual males, or if it's an inherently heterosexual male issue. I'm being somewhat facetious, of course, because I think the entire premise is ridiculous and supported by no data whatsoever.