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[Red]

Even though Tessbull might be deeply wrong in some aspect, it's better to tell him calmly and friendly. He is still at growing state, and he has his issues, let's not make them any worse.
Negative past and bullying might end up affecting years to the future, even so long as mental state of an adult. So please have even that much respect towards him, it's better to help kids grow right rather than make them feel any worse from what they are. It is true that he has learned from his mistakes, but it doesn't mean he has learned all his lessons just yet.
My lesson for Tessbull would be that wait couple more years, before even thinking the word "mature".

[Tiger]

[Ashtoreth]

I'll just leave this here:

“It’s so easy to see the behavior as misbehavior; but their acting out bodes to the child’s solution to the problems they’re facing,” Hartshorne said. “If you look at it that way, then this behavior is not just random and arbitrary, but perhaps functional in some ways. If you can figure out what the function is, then perhaps you can modify the behavior.”

http://www.perkins.org/resources/educati...e-phd.html

It's not a secret that Tesbull has CHARGE Syndrome, so please everyone just keep that in mind and try to be more patient and understanding with him in the future. There are certainly more mature and positive ways to help him change his behaviour on the forum than what I've just seen in this thread.

[Kreekakon]

Ok everybody, you've all had your say in this matter. I personally think that almost everyone involved is at some fault here. If anyone feels like there's something more to be said please do so in your own private sessions in which you can exchange your viewpoints on the subject CALMLY. Yes, calmly. Proper communication does not happen with all of the aggressive undertones being flung around here.

Also please keep the PM messages private. They are called PRIVATE messages for a reason, and should not to be shown to anyone else unless there's an extremely good reason, or both parties agree to have it public.

I should not have to say explicitly what will happen to anyone who tries to continue this line of argument in the public forum area

[Nice]

i forgot to workout today, the balance is ruined

[eliasfrost]

Good thing I had nothing more to say then.

[Romulator]

I need to invest in gym equipment. Either I'm getting inferior in strength, or my four year old cousin is getting heavier. o.0

[CarnivorousJelly]

The kid's getting heavier. They grow way too fast >.>

[The chaser]

Well, shit's got fixed. Cool.

Am I the only one who thinks "I could kill this baby so easily" when I hold one?

[Echohalls]

little children are satan spawn...

they're designed to annoy and destroy >.>