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**RedKnight** · 04-28-2014, 05:58 PM

I wish to say sorry for being a idiot.

Don't blame the fucking anger, blame my charge syndrome

I can't get control of my anger, this was even when i was a little kid.

I am a idiot, now i am just getting hated

**eliasfrost** · 04-28-2014, 06:07 PM

Really, stop that. Don't blame hurting others on your syndrome or get out of here. I'm getting tired of you trolling, flaming, swearing, unsulting and hi-jacking threads and then come back a few minutes later and blame it on your syndrome. Sure you might not be able to control yourself but you are still hurting and annoying people.

And yes, you are acting like an idiot and yes you are being hated right now and for good reasons.

**RedKnight** · 04-28-2014, 06:09 PM

I am blaming on my syndrome, i hate my life.

I never meant to troll or insult someone, i tried to be nice and friendly but my syndrome ruins it

I am gonna take a break and calm.

Ill be back in a day or three

**Nice** · 04-28-2014, 06:40 PM

there's a thing that I like to say a lot, and that is that deppresion or personal issues are no excuse for how you behave towards others. Keep the anger, hate, deppresion or whatevs in yourself and dont throw it at other.

Yeah I know, charge syndrome is obviously a big issue but rather than continously using it to excuse yourself from breaking rules you should work on fixing it. Ranting about it and getting angry does not help at all and the only advice i can give you is that everytime before you press that white button called "Post reply" you should just breathe in and out, chill out, look through the post again and ask yourself "Is it angry or aggresive? Or is it calm and mature"

**Red** · 04-28-2014, 06:52 PM

The way he acts is because his autism, he just simply can't help it, it's just something that is wrong in his head, period.

Kind of feel sorry for that kid, i wish i could help, but syndromes can't be healed just by talking, i afraid.

**Streetboat** · 04-28-2014, 06:59 PM

imo the internet is not a healthy place to be for people with similar syndromes. they need as much personal interaction as possible to help get over various aspects of social anxiety. the problem with the internet is that there is no actual interaction, so it can be easily forgotten that there are real people on the other end, and the filters that might be active in person can be switched off, and angers can flare more easily.

**Wooderson** · 04-28-2014, 07:02 PM

Yeah its not as easy as talking to people who suffer from certain conditions to tell them to stop. Pretty much everything is compulsive and as long as their brain is in working order they can't prevent it.

E.g My brother has extreme OCD and therapy has done nothing but make him feel much worse as he comes to realize how fucked up he is. Telling him to get better or to stop what he does also makes him feel worse too.

(04-28-2014, 06:59 PM)Streetboat Wrote: imo the internet is not a healthy place to be for people with similar syndromes. they need as much personal interaction as possible to help get over various aspects of social anxiety. the problem with the internet is that there is no actual interaction, so it can be easily forgotten that there are real people on the other end, and the filters that might be active in person can be switched off, and angers can flare more easily.

Absolutely. The internet can be a toxic environment for anyone. IIRC, the kid is like what 12 or 13? Not easy for most kids that age to fully interact with mixed communities of variety.

It's a shame these things happen/exist but the way in which it is tolerated needs to be something which needs to be looked at carefully for the sake of the weaker minds.

**Red** · 04-28-2014, 07:11 PM

I used the internet when i was like 10, and look what i have become, kids don't go to internet if you aren't old enough.

**RedKnight** · 04-28-2014, 07:16 PM

Actually, i'm 14.

Yes, i am still on the forum but only browsing threads. But i am fully back at september 2014.

I don't get so mad quickly at school, my friend told me he also once had autism and also got very angry.

But he doesn't get mad so much, my friends and me are mostly saying adult jokes just for fun.

That's all i can say for now

**Red** · 04-28-2014, 07:23 PM

I become autistic, if i don't get my daily cafeine dose, cup or two, i get angry over small things, feel depressed and such, it's a scary feeling.